Why are the breasts so important in sex?

Posted in Uncategorized on December 8th, 2009 by

A womans breasts are her positive pole of her sexuality just as the penis is the positive pole for a man.. The breasts are her source of her feminine essence and must be lovingly activated to allow the love and energy to overflow naturally.

The more a woman can be totally present in the feelings and sensations of her breasts, the more she will know her exquisite softness, femininity and power. This also allows her to really know herself as love and to overflow with universal love to all around her.

As a man, I just find my lover in her feminine to be so beautiful, soft, exquisite and desirable. This allows my masculine to be effortlessly activated and the resulting polarity leads to amazing and powerful sex.

Unfortunately, some women operate from a more masculine energy and have lost touch with their deep feminine essence. Many women have been hurt in the past and have responded to this by tending to protect themselves by loosing touch with their deep feminine and have tended to operate out of a more safe male energy.

Unfortunately, this leads to her heart being closed and it results in shallow relationships and unfulfilling sex. She will have a tendency to let work dominate her life, shopping, children and to be pretty disconnected to her body. She probably will not want to make love that much and have trouble really connecting in sex.

One simple way to return to the feminine essence for any woman is to focus on the breast area. Opening her heart will allow delicate sensations of love and energy to flow right throughout her body.

“Many different kinds of orgasm will follow from the breasts being lavishly included in lovemaking. Naturally this involves man – how he caresses and touches the breasts – but only to a certain extent. At the deepest level it involves a woman’s interest in herself as an expression of the feminine.”

Diana Richardson, Tantric Orgasm for Women

One way for any woman to become more feminine in essence is from breast massage during meditation.

When you are lying down on your back, place your hands just under the breasts so they are lightly cupped.

Lie down on your back with the spine straight, shoulders relaxed, feet slightly apart and a small pillow under the head so the neck is straight and comfortable.

Now take slow and deep breaths from your belly. Really relax on the out breath and have an open mouth. Make some sighing sounds on the out breath and really let go.

Take your attention to your breasts and their sensations and feeling, Imagine energy filling your breasts with each breath. Really feel and be totally in your breasts.

Fall into your breasts, surrender into your breasts, melt into your breasts. Allow the breast energy to fill your heart with light and love.

Now allow the love and energy to move throughout your body. One can even imagine the energy flowing out on the out breath and filling the room or even the whole world.